I have my nose in Human Anatomy & Physiology and came up with a couple thoughts on why some marriages work and some don't.
Here is a refresher in Chemistry. There are different kinds of chemical bonds- Ionic, Polar covalent & Nonpolar covalent.
The strongest bond is the Nonpolar covalent and the weakest is ionic bond.
Thinking about it - marriage bonds ARE exactly the same way.
-Nonpolar covalent is the equal sharing of electrons/ charge is balanced: O=C=O
-Polar covalent is the electron charge is unequal sharing of electrons: O-
(there is negative charge at one and positive at the other end ) / \ H+ H+
-Ionic is the complete transfer of electrons (separate ions): Na+Cl-
Here are some thoughts that hit me:
There is NO WAY for a person to find happiness as a individual.
Men and women are incomplete as individuals.
Marriage / happiness doesn't work with two independent individuals.
When women choose careers/competitiveness/self will it will destroy Marriage/Children/Family/ Happiness.
There is VAST difference between a partnership and a union.
Union is when two people separate their individuality/superiority but not their identity.
In other words, united = unity = one being
Women are designed to be in union with a man.
Both have to surrender their individuality to form a union
If union can not be made- then impotence, self centeredness,regression are the consequences.
Another reason why marriages don't work - incompatible material (next chapter:)
In conclusion, marriages based on incompatible bond of partnership
(multiple independence/money/careers) will be broken.
Happiness will be destroyed.
Marriages that is based on a compatible bond of union (equally dependent) will succeed.
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